Divorce and Bankruptcy
My boyfriend is going through a divorce and his ex wife and himself have a joint debt load of $104,000.00, he is and has been paying child support for his children, but he can not afford the outstanding debt living elsewhere. His ex wife is keeping the house with an outstanding mortgage of $194,000.00, the $104,000.00 is personal loans, credit cards and lines of credit. Is bankruptcy and option for him?

A bankruptcyor a proposal sound like would be good options to consider, but determining which option is best based on the snapshot profile you provided is not possible.
You need to review things in a little more depth with a licensed trustee in your area and he will be able to review all the pertinent information and help to decide what options will best suit your needs.