WOW, thanks for the info.......most definitely I will learn to be more responsible in saving my money and not use so much credit cards when it comes to shopping, and day to day living and not do friends favours. I think I will go the bankruptcy route , then save for a long time to get a hefty down payment while still having enough for day to day expenses, car financing/purchase , a emergency fund , vacation fund etc etc.
I agree with you that banks are not going to lend me 300k while making small payments on credit cards, even right now my line of credit loans, and credit cards payments are amounting monthly over $2000 a month, and my yearly salarly is just under 40k, not balanced at all, which is why I am in trouble..
What I need to do is bite the bullet like the website says, is to start to repair credit by getting a secured visa credit card with a $1000 limit make full payments, and start contributing to a RRSP and/or getting RRSP loans to show the bank that I am responsible financially (after bankruptcy) I am even willing to do this for the next 5 years as I really have no need to buy a house right away, just that my age is not on my side anymore hehehe

, and I just hope that future mortgage rates will look attractive as they do now , but that may be over optimistic (just sort of bummed out that its the best time in home buying in over 75 years and I am not on that band wagon).
I am glad that you replied and said that I will be honoured normal interest rates and mortgage rates even after bankruptcy and 2 years of discharge. I don't feel so doomed anymore. Do I have to become a client of yours just for the assistance of repairing my credit, or do you just do mortgages for all types of people?